Blow Jobs.
I don’t know why they don’t get mentioned more. All guys must love a good blow job. Maybe that’s the problem though, receiving a ‘good’ one.
A close male confidant (aka Mr T) recently mentioned how “he’d never met a girl before me who was particularly good at blow jobs, let alone liked giving them”. This shocked me. I love giving head. I am also pretty good at it. Though I believe most of that is because:
1. I love cock
2. I really want to be down there
3. I get fucking turned on by it!
Previous lovers have commented on my skills, one mentioning how he loved it so much because he knew how much I wanted his dick in my mouth. Now as a thumbsucker of 24 years I have developed some helpful tricks, now I know a penis and a thumb are two very different things, (well the ones I like to deal with are!!) but a good sucking technique I can do, and also breathing through the nose for long periods of time is a no brainer for me! Also, obviously, I enjoy the actual act of sucking on something!
So I have taken it upon myself to share with you a few ideas I have about sucking cock. These are just my personal feelings and views but as someone who loves Bj’s so much that I am at my wettest when I finish, I feel I obviously have something of use to share…
Now I love a man who likes to give head. What girl doesn’t, but it is also important that they have some vague idea what to do down there. Technique and certain moves can be taught but a basic understanding of the vagina is essential, and the same applies to the blowjob. Ladies, if you expect a man to know where your clit is and tend to it in a certain manner whilst working his fingers into you at the same time. Know what your doing down there on him…. or at least do some research!!
Now things have progressed with the Mr T, so when last night I got asked if I’d like to suck his cock ( I had been slightly teasing it through his trousers for the last half hour of the movie) of course I replied…. I’d love to.
Now…. here’s how I do it…
1. Kiss a man before you go down, spend time teasing him with your tongue, vary your speed and pressure. All these touches will make him think about your lips doing the same a little further south if you get me…
2. Don’t jump straight in, take your time working your way in between his thighs, lightly bite his neck, trace lines over his ribcage and down his sides, get his whole body tingling with anticipation,.
3. Get on your knees (and by all means grab a pillow…. I always do this with a little glint in my eye and slight smile on my lips, to me it says…I’m gonna be some time) though its not the most comfortable position he get’s to feel all manly and in power and you get access all areas…crucial
4. In my opinion, get him sat on the edge of a sofa, or edge of a bed (if possible use mirrors for added visual stimulation!!) his hips should be as close to the edge as possible (sofa position also means he will be slightly seated meaning they can see straight down and have the best view in the house
5. Tease the boy… make him yearn for your tongue to flicker across the tip of his cock. This will make the moment you slowly take the head of his cock into your mouth he will be practically begging for it
6. Gently does it. Now I fully believe a girl can never wank a boy off as good as he can do it himself. But your not trying to recreate what he can do in 5 minutes, trousers round ankles, hunched over in the toilet, no, you are giving him you full attention; a pleasure filled experience. A soft (but firm) touch is all that’s required and yes ladies, get those hands involved!!
7. Variety is the spice of life, so mix it up a bit, keep changing the technique (I’m not gonna give away all my secrets now, but learn some trade moves…. every girl should have a few) alternate between ones you know he really loves (tell tell signs of increased heavy breathing and the common ‘ohmygods’ ohfuckyeah’ and ‘Mmmms’) with ones that you know just must feel nice, ie, slowly running the tip of your tongue round the head and up and down the shaft.
8. Enjoy it, don’t rush it. I’m more then happy to be down there half hour plus. I need that amount of time to really enjoy it myself
9. Don’t be lazy, its called a job for a reason. There’s a lot to think about but most important, enjoy it, go with what you know he likes, keep a drink hear by, dry blow jobs aren’t pleasant, get involved, make eye contact, use your hands, don’t be silent, don’t ignore other parts of him (balls etc) at the end of the day, you’re giving him a treat
10. Don’t be afraid to ask him what he likes and doesn’t, get to know his quirks and kinks, it really does differ from man to man… let him show you just how to handle him and learn.
11. To deep throat or not to deep throat? Any good porno will show a girl deepthroating and gagging away, to me, that’s not essential, or that pretty. Relax your throat and mouth and take him as deep as you can but you should always be in control. I adore a hand knotted in the hair at the nape of my neck, guiding me up and down his cock, but if this gets too forceful just back off, they’ll get the hint, and if they don’t, speak up!
12. Be a lady… if you can; swallow. Spitting is just a little bit nasty. And if you really cant swallow his seed, at least let him come over your tits, but please, don’t just spit it back out. I can’t think of anything less sexy!!!
So there are my little tips to giving good head. and ladies, most importantly you should know that if you enjoy it and so will they….and if they enjoy it greatly, chances are your in for some good times too, role reversed and all that!!!!